ADHD is different for everyone who experiences it. The neurodevelopmental disorder doesn’t discriminate by age or gender, but it typically begins in childhood and lasts into adulthood. However, many millennials are learning they’re neurodivergent later in life. Suddenly, they’re starting to realize why they’ve felt different or broken their whole life – there’s nothing wrong with them; their brains just work differently.
As a cognitive behavioral therapist, I work with my clients to help them navigate all the big and small challenges of living with a neurodevelopmental disorder. Whether you’ve had a diagnosis since childhood or haven’t gotten one at all, understanding the different types of ADHD in adults can be a game changer when it comes to receiving affirming support.
The American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM-5) outlines the diagnostic criteria for ADHD in both adults and children. These criteria show 3 different ADHD subtypes: hyperactive-impulsive, inattentive, and combined types.
Hyperactive-Impulsive ADHD:
Inattentive ADHD:
Combined ADHD:
Criteria for ADHD in Adults (17 and up):
There are also emotional symptoms of ADHD that, while not in the diagnostic criteria, are very real and commonly experienced by many adults. These symptoms include:
Many of the above symptoms can be a result of ADHD, but it can be challenging to differentiate between symptoms of separate disorders. For instance, ADHD shares many symptoms with both anxiety and depression. ADHD can also amplify existing mental health problems. Many people with ADHD also have Generalized Anxiety Disorder, for example. The more support and knowledge you have around each of your mental health issues, the better daily life can feel.
So you think you may be neurodivergent. Maybe you’ve gotten a diagnosis, or maybe you’ve just done your research (like reading this article) and have your suspicions. Great! You’re like many of my clients.
Now, here’s my disclaimer on all that:
As the Centers for Disease Control states, there isn’t any one ADHD test or quiz that can determine whether you have the disorder. Additionally, many other mental health issues can amplify or mimic ADHD symptoms, including ADHD, anxiety, and other types of neurodivergence. So keep in mind that while it’s tempting to go down a Google and YouTube rabbit hole of self-diagnosis, there may be other factors at play.
All that said, I believe everyone knows themselves best – and everyone deserves access to information that can improve their lives. Even if you don’t have an official diagnosis, learning more about the different ADHD subtypes can help you come up with strategies, set goals, and decide whether to seek support.
If you’ve spent a lot of your life feeling like an outsider and a weirdo, only to realize you’re neurodivergent, you’re not alone. Furthermore, a growing body of evidence suggests that women and femmes typically experience ADHD differently than men. So if you’re a woman, you may have masked your symptoms for years or decades because you didn’t fully understand them.
You don’t have to keep trying to navigate neurodivergence on your own. Awareness, therapy, medication, or some combination of supportive modalities can make a huge difference in how you live your life. If you want support in figuring out how to live a more balanced life with ADHD, I’m here for you.
I’ll help you:
Learn more about my therapy services (including EMDR and talk therapy) if you’re located in Idaho or Iowa. For all other locations, check out my coaching services. My coaching program offers all the same expertise, tools, and guidance as therapy in a direct and goal-oriented approach that you can benefit from anywhere.
Reach out today to schedule a complimentary consultation and see if we’re a good fit. Let’s start building a better future together.
Danielle is an anxiety therapist and perfectionism coach. She specializes in helping busy millennials dial down their anxiety and ADHD, so they can perform at their best. Danielle has been featured on Apartment Therapy, SparkPeople, Lifewire, and Now Art World. When Danielle isn't helping her clients, she's playing video games or spending time with her partner and step children.